If you are going to date women successfully, you need to master the art of flirting. Getting women, even gorgeous women, to flirt is simple. Before you start to flirt with her, find someone who is interested in you. Once you find a woman you like, be observant on her body language. To know more about the signs of body language, read my previous articles entitled 3 Signs of Female Interest in a Date and How to Approach Women the Easiest Way. You’ll find helpful informations for your flirting to be successful and read on the easy steps below to guide you.

1. Now then, start up a conversation with her. Speak with confidence and flow, but do not attempt extreme images such as macho, super-smooth, cool dude, comedian, pick-up artist, witty conversationalist, or having a profession that you do not have.

2. You can fake the confidence at first. It will come more naturally when she responds to you.

3. Don’t overwhelm her with compliments. You should focus on going from “nice acquaintance” to “intimate friend/potential lover” quickly. Intimate friends joke around, tease each other gently, and touch each other. Start with touching her on the arm when you’re laughing (don’t watch the hand). See if she touches you.

4. Don’t act like you’re trying to impress her. If she really does something stupid and is a little embarrassed (not horrified) call her out on it. Smirk, say, “Wow – that was smooth!” with a little smile, then change tone and say, “Oh – come here!” and comfort her with a little side-hug. If you do or say something stupid, don’t just ignore it, either. Don’t focus on it for too long, but just say, “It’s my first day walking. Give me a break!” with a smile.

5. Throw in some jokes. Humor can relieve awkwardness. Alternatively, just learn to be witty. Almost all girls like intelligence as well as confidence.

6. Show that you’re secure with yourself and when you say something that you stick to your word.

7. If you say something weird, follow it up with something funny and turn it into a joke.

8. Sit close to her but don’t breathe down her neck. Two chairs side-by-side are all that are needed. You might also be able to sit behind her and at times hit her hair a time or two. She’ll turn around if she feels you, then make a joke that she finds humorous.

9. If she has a scarf on that you think is ok or really good, tell her, and touch her scarf for a few seconds and ask when and where she got it.

10. Find something that you both think is hilarious. Turn it into an inside joke, so when you want to talk to her, you have something to say no matter what, and she thinks that something is funny. However, don’t use it too much, otherwise it loses its humor and her opinion of your humor is lowered.

11. Don’t always be eager to start conversation with her. If she walks into class, you do not have to jump up and say hi immediately, but if she sits next to you and initiates conversation, go for it!

12. Be the man! Girls hate it when they have to start the conversation or take the lead (let her talk too though! Remember, listening is just as important!). You CAN go and sit next to her/talk to her; if she likes you she will not mind (she’ll love it!).

13. Keep jumping from one topic to another while talking.

14. Tell her some short wise and wonderful story if there is a long pause in the middle of your talks.

Also keep in mind that these guides will not work all the time but there’s no harm in trying. Learning to flirt with women is about making the best of yourself to come out. Just to enjoy and  be yourself when flirting with women.