9 Romantic Ways on How to Survive a Long Distance Relationship

Having a long distance relationship is not easy. It needs a very strong trust, guidelines, commitment, and communication to work. It requires also some effort from both parties to re-learn how to be intimate with each other since the physical contact is not present.

The best thing that you can do with this even if your love is away is still to become more romantic as you can be. Express to your partner how much you missed her each and every single day that you’re not with her/him. There are a lot of things and ways to do these and most of it are little things that we do in our lives, some of it follows;

1.) With the advancement of our technologies at present, reaching out to your loved ones living in a far place is not that difficult compared before. You can use instant messengers Skype, Yahoo, Aol and so on to keep your love life healthy as possible even its a long distance. This way you both have privacy and can help the width and depth of the love you have for each other.

2.) Be very imaginative and resourceful in composing a love letter full of long distance quotes or poems and looking for a picture that you have shared together. Example of this, you can make a collage of letters or pictures in a cardboard and cut them into a number of puzzle pieces. Then mail them by group every other day after your partner completed the puzzle, send a dozen of roses in celebration.

3.) Invite your friend to take pictures of yourself and make a calendar out of it. Use your imagination to create a beautiful one, try to search in the internet for this. For sure your long distance partner will never forget you for the romantic effort you have made for her/him.

4.) Another romantic move that you can make is to send your long distance love a letter sprayed with your perfume. Simply, just saturate a material with the scent of your perfume or cologne and the fragrance will last eternally.

5.) If you can’t be there to have a special moment like anniversaries, send your long distance love a dinner by calling the nearest restaurant where your partner lives and instruct them to deliver your love’s favorite meal. You may use your webcam to share the romantic dinner together.

6.) As a substitute of mailing your long distance partner a hand-written letter this week, give her/him a recorded tape telling your partner the greatest desires you have for them the next time you meet again. This is more helpful since they can listen to the tape whenever they want to hear your voice or misses you.

7.) Surprise your loved one by arranging for a delivery of their favorite flowers! Attach a handwritten card professing your love for them! This is always a beautiful surprise!

8.) Make a website or blog about your relationship together. Make the page attractive and include some long distance poems, pictures, thoughts, romantic messages, articles and stories of how you met, and all other little details that can make your partner smile.

9.) At the end of every month, you can make a cover page that summarizes all of the significant and sentimental stuffs that you have made together. Have all of the pages bound into a hard-covered book, and make a romantic title inscribed on the cover. This will become a treasured keepsake.

We’ll the question now is, “Will long distance relationships work?”

Long distance relationship will work if you have a strong foundation to begin with. If you’re both committed and believing that it will work and be aware of the difficulties in a long distance relationship, you’re well on your way. If your relationship is rocky to begin with, staying together while miles apart is going to be much harder.

Before you go into a long distance relationship, it is best to have clear rules around monogamy. Even if you were in a committed monogamous relationship when you’re in the same place, don’t think that the same rules are going to apply. Even if the topic is not that comfortable for both parties, it is still vital that you bring it up and that both understand what you expect from the other.

Ask yourself, what do you think? Will long distance relationship work for you?