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If you happen to be in a relationship and you are torn about whether to continue or to give up and move on, your life is a mess. From the outside others may think you are living the dream. Perhaps you have a great job and a beautiful home.

Is Love Really Blind?

by george on August 4, 2010

in romance

We’ve all heard the saying that ‘love is blind’ – some songs, poems and made for TV movies seem to be built around this idea. But is love ‘really’ blind? It’s true that we are likely to meet someone that we are outrageously attracted to, and we focus in on all the good things.

If you are sick and tired of every let down that traditional dating has led you to, you may be interested in a more modern trend of dating: online dating. You may be all that when it comes to picking up girls on the street and in bars, but to be an effective online dater, then you will need a completely new set of social skills. Why? When you pick up a girl at a bar, the way you softly speak to her and the way you playfully touch her hand and back are all invalid moves when it comes to dating online.

For the couple who plan to be committed to each other in marriage must sincerely trust and respect one another and must have self –awareness of his personality and attitudes. As a person is growing up your personality, behavior and attitudes are within you and can be manifested to others who know you.

Every newlywed couple dreams growing older together but it is not an easy task. It takes a lot of patience, dying to one self, trust and perseverance to reach your 40th; 50yrs or 60 years of marriage. It is a great joy for a couple to see their children successful and grandchildren growing, enjoying them and helping one another in times of hardship and amidst trails. It is a feeling of great achievement to reach your 40th anniversary and still be together as a family. Money and fame cannot buy that feeling of fulfillment of peace within yourself and harmony of family.

It is an overwhelming feeling as a couple and parent’s to see your children growing–up and seeing the fruits of your labor. Maintaining a united and unselfish love for family and as a couple is no easy task. More so raising children as you are raising several personalities and attitudes. Keeping the romance alive while raising the children will depend again on how committed are the couple of their love of each other and family.